Do guys care what a vagina looks like?

Do men care what a vagina looks like?

A woman from our Instagram community asked this question below. In turn 200+ men responded. Read on below for the 200+ unfiltered responses.

Unattainable beauty standards, photoshop/ filters and porn has put an insane amount of societal pressure on women; specifically on their bodies. Enough pressure for women to consider Labiaplasty. Labiaplasty is surgery performed to alter the appearance of the labia; most commonly performed to make one’s labia shorter/ smaller.

A note for the men reading this:
Something a lot of people fail to realize about sexual anatomy is that people are simply born different shapes and sizes. Men believe because a woman has a longer labia or because she’s “not as tight as he’d expect”, that she must be extremely sexually active, or older. This is simply untrue. A woman can be sexually inexperienced and have a longer labia/ bigger vaginal opening/ circumference because of her genetics.

Do guys care what a vagina looks like?

The majority of men say they don’t care. But what they DO care about is hygiene (smell/ hair maintenance). A note for my girls: I carry 1-2 feminine wipes in my purse at all times. They have organic ingredients, cleanse, freshen things up and leave you smelling like a vanilla cupcake. 12/10 recommend.

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200+ men share if they care what a vagina looks like:

1. Hair maintenance > Labia maintenance

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2. Natural is best. Doctored is gross!

3. I think we notice taste/smell more than anything lol 🤷🏽‍♂️

4. Don’t notice 

5. No lol

6. ..same way women have preference of 🍆🌶🍤

7. Yes we do, the bigger question is how do some girls not know their V smells funky.

8. What…. Please don’t get surgery. We barely remember what we wore yesterday.

9. I think as long as it’s not a jungle down there, they all look diff, and that’s okay.

10. I love vaginas of all shapes and sizes

11. I’ve never had this be an issue

12. Yeah everyone looks different down there, some cuter than others but it’s doesn’t matter

13. We don’t care.

14. To a degree, hygiene is far more important.

15. I STRONGLY prefer bigger lips. Actually disappointed when they’re small/nonexistent

16. Yes and Yes 😂

17. This is absolutely hilarious, I hope they are kidding

18. Fixing stuff we don’t care about.

19. Do not care. Pleased to be there!

20. Some are much prettier than others I will say that, but I’ve never had one turn me off.

21. Depends

22. Oh my fucking god - no. Don’t do that all vjj are wonderful!!!

23. What in the world

24. I mean do women notice what a man’s penis is like??? 😂

25. Notice, yes…care, not really. Some prettier than others but clean/well manicured is 🔑

26. Stop.. ladies.. If your man don’t love you the way you are upgrade to a new man

27. This seems to be more self consciousness than driven by men’s reactions imo

28. We do unfortunately 

29. Hell nah

30. Nope. Unless it’s like to the point where skin gets pulled in during sex, not at all. Smell n taste matter more

31. We notice but everyone's body is different to appraise them all, everyone’s beautiful!

32. If it looks like a wizards sleeve then yeah otherwise no. Just make sure it doesn’t smell 😆

33. Men don’t care. No ones turning down the seggs, especially when you’re that close

34. There are definitely cute and ugly vaginas

35. Not really… they’re all just a lil different

36. Doesn’t really matter from my exp.

37. If they love you they literally won’t care

38. Not at all

39. How old are these people getting this procedure? After kids?

40. All Vs are beautiful just the way they are

41. There are plenty of acceptable variations, but we care.

42. Nah not really. Just please be clean and healthy

43. That’s kind of a dumb question… girls obviously care what a dudes dick looks like

44. Def care lol

45. If a man is lucky enough to get a look at a girl’s vagina he shouldn’t be thinking twice

46. Men DON'T CARE about: what your cat looks like, lonjas, cellulite, flawed skin, etc

47. Not unless it’s a problem for them. Dicks aren’t that appealing to look at either lol

48. Do not care

49. Duh we notice… sometimes it matters, other times not.

50. Genital mutilation?

51. There can be better looking ones but as long as personal hygiene is a 10 it doesn’t matter

52. Would you need an example to base my opinion off. I would notice if it looks good so there’s that

53. Probably one of the things we notice the most

54. Fixing stuff we don’t care about.

55. It don’t matter what it looks like. So long as clean and kept

56. We do, but most of the time is doesn’t matter

57. Notice? Yes. Care? 99% of the time no.

58. NO

59. It’s not like I have a perfect looking penis so it doesn’t matter

60. We care 

61. Don’t particularly care. Just has to feel good. :)

62. Not at all

63. I look and think wow like comfy

64. I hope most men don’t care. Labiaplasty seems extreme but it’s her body her choice!

65. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a vagina that looked bad.

66. Not something that I particularly care about. How it feels is more important

67. We notice, but at the same time, we really don’t care 🤷‍♂️

68. Nope 

69. Notice-yes/Care-no. It’s about who you are. And the connection between two ppl

70. Don’t care what it looks like. As long as my dick fits in nicely

71. Absolutely we notice, and generally don’t care…but still have our favorite types.

72. No we don’t care

73. Notice, don’t care

74. Hellz no we don’t care. Quit with the plastic surgery already!

75. Unless it’s super loose.

76. As long as it isn’t scary lookin we good

77. Do we notice, yes. Do we care, no. (my babe sent me to answer this in the name of science)

78. Yes we notice. But as with everything, different men like different vaginas. I love big lips 😊

79. We care more about the taste and less about the appearance.

80. If we are close enough to see, we are good

81. …with men generally it’s more about maintenance, for beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

82. Roughly I would say it’s 50/50

83. Don’t care

84. Again, might notice. But seriously (unless there’s something sketchy like medically) not bothered

85. Don’t really care lol

86. What? Why would a woman do this?? No.

87. Not a bother. Everybody is different.

88. Idk what you call it (outies?) but definitely prefer that to innies lol.. Everyone’s different

89. Tbh some look better that others, but idc. Horrified 2 hear women r gettin plastic surgery!

90. As long as my partner is comfortable, I don’t care one but!

91. We notice 

92. 😱 Please no! Y’all are beautiful just as is!

93. 💯. Just saw my exes vjj after a few years of not, and it wasn’t as pretty as before. 🤞 🤐

94. I don’t care what it looks like. There’s more to love and relationships than that

95. Hell no we don’t care.

96. Noticing and caring are two different things. Of course we notice. Won’t prevent sex though

97. I literally do not care what a vagina looks like. I do not find that part of a woman attractive regardless.

98. Yes

99. Waste of money.

100. A pretty looking labia definitely helps. I imagine a big, good looking dick helps? Same same.

101. Yes, some pussies are just plain ugly, and some are fucking beautiful.

102. No. As long as your vag doesn’t smell weird or have a 4’’ clitoris it doesn’t matter what it looks like.

103. Love what they look like. I’m just happy to be a part of the ‘’conversation’’ lol

104. To be brutally honest we notice smell and taste more than appearance.

105. I’d be shocked if people legitimately cared.

106. Yes we notice, but no we don’t care. They are all beautiful 😍

107. We notice but don’t care (unless there is A LOT of visible labia which is a turnoff usually)

108. For the most part no but respectfully there are a few who might

109. Couldn't care less

110. An absolutely unnecessary, ridiculous procedure

111. All are beautiful

112. Doesn’t matter, porn influences that stereotype

113. It can’t be out of control loose

114. It doesn’t matter

115. We definitely notice, but care? Nah, not really. For the fboys it’s a point of conversation later

116. Not the right move unless it’s really what you want. Your parts are fine as they are 😆

117. We do notice but don’t care

118. No, don’t care what they look like.

119. No.  Save your money

120. Do not care. Definitely do not care enough to go get surgery done.

121. Don’t notice, don’t care. Body confidence is hot regardless of what it or any part looks like

122. Of course we see it and no we don’t care. We LIKE them lmao

123. Yep and nope

124. Couldn’t care less

125. Kinda hard not to notice. But most are just whatever lol. I’ve only seen a few I thought looked…”weird”

126. Nope don’t check them out

127. Do not care

128. No we don’t 

129. Not really

130. Notice yes, care no

131. Yes we notice. Don’t want it looking sloppy

132. Men are very visual. Of course we notice

133. Is it noticeable? Sure. Do we care? Nope

134. Yes we notice

135. Everyone has their preference. Not a big deal or worth surgery! Personality is key!

136. This is ridiculous. Men aren’t getting dick surgery. Love your partner for who they are.

137. Please. No vagina altering unless youre Binary or id as a fairy

138. Yes I notice but don’t care.

139. We care yes lol

140. Yess. U can always tell when someone has high miles!! Too much use leaves big ass lips

141. Notice? Yes. Care? Not really. Unless something is real off but even then usually no big deal

142. I notice when they’re “cute” but don’t care otherwise. I haven’t seen anything gross yet

143. Low key. Yes I notice and I probably shouldn’t care but I do. I don’t want one that looks beat up.

144. I think everyone can appreciate pretty genitals but it’s not the be all or end all

145. I couldn’t pick out my long-time gf’s vag in a crowd. Isn’t that why pornstars need tats?

146. I’m hyper-observant, so I will notice, but I don’t care.

147. Absolute waste just find the many that loves all of you.

148. As long as the lips aren’t too big. I’m not bothered

149. And! Some guys might even be more attracted to a bigger labia

150. We like them all. I’ve never heard of a guy being turned off by how a girl’s bits looked.

151. Never ever heard men even have a preference other thank available 💀. Woman’s media F

152. As long as it doesn’t smell putrid, I’m golden

153. Could care less unless there is something insane happening, which would expect a convo b4

154. No be comfortable with who you are and men should respect that. Simple as that

155. Absolutely not

156. No we don’t care

157. Yep definitely

158. This question will hurt feelings. Nobody wants to eat something hanging down your leg 🤢

159. I have a preference in the type of look I prefer, but would rarely be a dealbreaker

160. Definitely notice, and again… No real man will care. Just bury your face in it and enjoy

161. Nope. Keep the sharp objects away from the lady sandwich…

162. I don’t understand that current trend, most vgs look perfectly unique

163. Most guys do not care. They’re happy/content with being there in the first place. Lol

164. I do notice and i think most guys do but i don’t it’s matters as much as hygiene and sensation

165. Some do, just like women care whether a man is or isn’t circumcised.

166. Yes we notice. No we don’t care … but we can tell that you do. Confidence is key !!!

167. No not really

168. I notice, and am fascinated! Just clean and a little maintained is enough!

169. We don’t care and would you honestly want to be with a man who cares? Please don’t do it

170. I think it’s normal to notice things but if you are into the person it doesn’t matter much

171. Not at all. Every woman is beautiful in their own way.

172. Single for 5 years and in my 30s now, I’ll take anything 😅😅

173. Yes we do, there is such thing as an ugly vag and a nice looking vag!

174. We notice but we don’t care lol. Who hurt y’all?

175. Absolutely not

176. Not at all, I think hygiene down there is far more important than looks lol

177. Yeah but don’t care. We’re with a naked woman so we hit the Jack pot

178. For sure

179. Idek what that is^ but I definitely look at it get all up in it 😜😝😈

180. I have never heard a man say “she had a weird looking vag” its all about her hygiene lol

181. It does matter. Less so if there is love/commitment. “Kitty is kitty” men scare me. 😂

182. Honestly don’t care - all about the fits and feeling

183. Oh this will be a good one haha

184. We notice. Don’t really care how it looks, but smell and taste we 100% care about

185. Notice, yes. But if a guy actually likes you he won’t be shallow enough for it to matterI prefer longer labia! I imagine men like it all, but have preferences.

186. It’s all pink on the inside 🤷‍♂️😂

187. Yes we do we not just trying to get any monkey 😂 gotta get it looking nice

188. Prefer natural , don’t get surgery it is beautiful naturally

189. We definitely do. Just like you notice penis size. Please please please take care of your vaginas. Alot don’t

190. Couldn’t care less and can’t picture one to this day

191. Nope - just happy to be there 😂

192. Be genuine when we kiss or give/get oral and we are turned on.

193. Everyone’s is different and beautiful in its own right. We don’t care.

194. Don’t care

195. Nope not even something we care to look at

196. All look different! Doesn’t matter

197. Doesn’t matter, just stoked to be having sex 🤣

198. Totally unnecessary

199. Yes we care!!!!!! You don’t want it looking like calamari!

200. To an extent, but if the vibes right no one cares….

201. No